When your advertisement or modification is rejected, you will receive a notification in your ‘My Kinky’ environment.

In the notification, you can see exactly why your advertisement or modification was rejected. Not completely sure what the reason means?

Check below to see what each rejection reason means and what you can do to get your advertisement or modification approved.

Doubt of the correctness of your Dutch origin 

You have listed the Netherlands as your origin in your advertisement, but we believe this is incorrect. 

A reliable profile is essential so visitors can get an accurate impression of you. Providing incorrect information about your origin can be misleading and is therefore not allowed. 

Tip: Check if your listed origin is correct and adjust it if necessary. If you’re unable to change it, please contact customer service.

Doubt about the correctness of  your origin 

You have listed an origin in your advertisement, but we believe it is incorrect. 

A reliable profile is essential so that visitors can form an accurate impression of you. Providing incorrect information about your origin can be misleading and is therefore not allowed. 

Tip: Check if your listed origin is correct and adjust it if necessary. If you’re unable to change it, please contact customer service.

Doubt about the correctness of the spoken languages 

You have selected one or more languages in your advertisement, but we believe you do not speak them. 

A clear and honest profile helps visitors get an accurate impression of you. Indicating that you speak a language when you actually don’t can lead to poor communication during an appointment. 

Tip: Check whether the selected languages match the ones you actually speak and adjust them if necessary. If you’re unable to do so, call customer service; they can verify whether you really speak the language. 

You don't speak dutch but you selected it in your ad  

You have selected Dutch as a language in your advertisement, but we believe you do not speak it. 

A clear and honest profile helps visitors get an accurate impression of you. Indicating that you speak Dutch when you actually don’t can lead to misunderstandings or uncomfortable situations during your date. 

Tip: Check whether the selected languages are correct and adjust them if necessary. If you’re unable to do so, please contact customer service so they can verify whether you really speak the language.

Your age not realistic  

You have entered an age that doesn’t seem realistic. 

Your age must be realistic so visitors can get an accurate impression of you. Being off by a year is fine, but several years is no longer realistic, even if people say you look younger. 

Tip: Check whether your age is correct and adjust it if necessary. If you’re unable to change it, contact customer service so we can verify and update it for you.

You have placed your age in your name, title or text  

You are not allowed to include your age in your name, title, or text. 

Your age should only be entered in the designated field. If you add it to your name, title, or text, it can be confusing or may not match the information in your profile. 

Tip: Remove your age from the name, title, and text.

Your ad is not in the right category  

You have placed your advertisement in the wrong category. 

It’s important that your advertisement is listed in the category that matches your content. An incorrect category or date type can make it harder for visitors to find you among other advertisements. 

Tip: Check whether the selected category or date type matches what you offer and adjust it if necessary. If you’re unable to change it, please contact customer service for assistance. 

The service offered does not correspond to the content of the advertisement.  

The date type of your advertisement does not match the content of your advertisement. 

The services you offer in your advertisement must match the selected date type. This ensures that visitors see the right advertisements when they filter by date type. 

Tip: Adjust your text so it matches your date type. If you want to change the date type, you’ll need to delete your advertisement and create a new one with the correct date type.

Your ad contains contradictions  

Your advertisement contains information that contradicts itself. 

Conflicting information can be confusing for visitors and makes your advertisement less reliable. For example, mentioning a different age or origin in the text than in the age or origin field. 

Tip: Review your advertisement carefully and adjust the text so that it matches the rest of your advertisement.

Your ad contains inconsistencies 

Your advertisement contains information that contradicts itself.  

Conflicting information can be confusing for visitors and makes your advertisement less reliable. For example, mentioning a different age or origin in the text than in the age or origin field.  

Tip: Review your advertisement carefully and adjust the text so that it matches the rest of your advertisement.

Your ad is not according the rules 

Your advertisement does not comply with our house and advertising rules. 

There is something in your advertisement that is not allowed according to our house and advertising rules. 

Tip: Read the house and advertising rules carefully and adjust your advertisement accordingly.

Your change is not following the rules  

Your change does not comply with our house and advertising rules. 

There is something in this change that is not allowed according to our house and advertising rules. 

Tip: Read the house and advertising rules carefully and adjust your advertisement accordingly.

Advertisement is not prostitution  

We believe you are looking for free (sexual) contact. 

Kinky is intended for offering professional prostitution services. We believe you are not offering professional services. 

Tip: If you do offer professional services (for example, gigolo or massage), adjust your advertisement. If you are looking for a sex worker, create an advertisement on Sexjobs.nl instead.

Your ad is not a business ad  

You have posted an advertisement that is not a general business advertisement. 

A business advertisement is meant to promote your company, not an individual employee. 

Tip: Adjust your advertisement so that it promotes your company. If you are an independent advertiser, delete this account and create an account as a sex worker.

You have placed contact information in your name, title or text  

You have included contact details in your name, title, or text. 

Contact details such as a phone number, email address, website, or social media name may not be publicly visible on the site without control. This prevents unsuspecting people from being contacted or harassed. 

Tip: Remove the contact details from your name, title, and text. Only enter them in the designated section of your advertisement.

You placed contact details in your ad  

You have included contact details in your name, title, or text.  

Contact details such as a phone number, email address, website, or social media name may not be publicly visible on the site without control. This prevents unsuspecting people from being contacted or harassed.  

Tip: Remove the contact details from your name, title, and text. Only enter them in the designated section of your advertisement.

You have placed place names in your name, title or text 

You have included place names in your name, title, or text. 

A place name should only be entered in the designated field. If you include a different place or multiple place names in your name, title, or text, it can be confusing and may cause your advertisement to display incorrectly in the search results. 

Tip: Remove place names from your name. Only the location of your advertisement may appear in your title and text.

You have placed irrelevant characters in your name, title or text  

You have included irrelevant characters in your name, title, or text. 

The use of unnecessary characters, such as ASCII characters, symbols, or repeated punctuation marks, makes your advertisement unreadable and can be distracting for visitors. 

Tip: Remove unnecessary characters from your name, title, and text so your advertisement looks neat and professional.

You placed cities in your title or text  

You have included place names in your title or text. 

A place name should only be entered in the designated field. If you include a different place or multiple place names in your title or text, it can be confusing and may cause your advertisement to display incorrectly in the search results. 

Tip: Remove place names from your title or text. Only the location of your advertisement may appear in your title and text.

Your ad contains too much capitals  

Your advertisement contains too many capital letters. 

Using too many capital letters makes your advertisement look messy and can come across as shouting. This reduces readability and gives an unprofessional impression. 

Tip: Edit your advertisement and use capital letters only at the beginning of sentences and for the first letter of names.

Only a name is allowed in the name field  

You have entered more than just your name in the name field. 

The name field is intended for only a first name. Additional text, ages, cities, or contact details do not belong here and make your advertisement unclear. 

Tip: Enter only your first name in the name field and remove any other information.

Only a name is allowed in the name field  

You have entered more than just your name in the name field. 

The name field is intended for only a first name. Additional text, ages, cities, or contact details do not belong here and make your advertisement unclear. 

Tip: Enter only your first name in the name field and remove any other information.

Discrimination is not allowed  

Your advertisement contains discriminatory or exclusionary language. 

Discrimination based on origin, skin color, or religion is not allowed. Of course, you may decide for yourself whom you want to meet, but excluding someone in advance in your advertisement is not permitted. 

Tip: Adjust your text so that it is respectful and welcoming to everyone.

No recruitment of ladies allowed  

Your advertisement appears to be a job vacancy. 

It is not allowed to recruit staff through Kinky.nl. Kinky.nl is intended for offering prostitution services, not for hiring personnel. 

Tip: Remove this advertisement. On Sexjobs.nl, companies can post job vacancies to recruit staff.

There is a ban on physical contact. It is not allowed to actively promote this  

Offering physical contact is not allowed. 

At this time, physical contact is prohibited due to the coronavirus epidemic. Virtual contact is allowed. 

Tip: Adjust your advertisement so that you only offer virtual services.

Promotion of competitive websites is not allowed  

Your advertisement contains a URL to a competing website. 

It is not allowed to promote competing websites in your advertisement. The URL or website may only be used to support your advertisement and can link to your own website or social media profile. 

Tip: Remove the URL and replace it with one that complies with the rules.

Website must be directly linked to your advertisement 

Your advertisement contains a URL to a competing website.  

It is not allowed to promote competing websites in your advertisement. The URL or website may only be used to support your advertisement and can link to your own website or social media profile.  

Tip: Remove the URL and replace it with one that complies with the rules.

You already have an ad  

You have not removed another (old) advertisement. 

It is not allowed to post multiple advertisements for the same services at the same time. This is unfair and can be confusing for visitors. 

Tip: Delete your old advertisement or account before posting a new one.