It's not what you want to hear. That is why we sincerely regret it. But scams do happen. Our Kinky Customer Service also sometimes receives a call from a visitor who has been scammed.

The types of fraud that are sometimes discussed are blackmail, paying in advance, and not having made agreements in advance, which creates a lack of clarity. These shapes are explained in more detail below.

Blackmail

We don't like to talk about it that's why you don't hear it often. But that doesn't mean it isn't there. Once you're blackmailed, it's hard to get rid of.

It is therefore important to prevent blackmail by ensuring that you do not become vulnerable to blackmail. And that's easier than you think. Therefore, read the following tips carefully.

• Do not use your private telephone, but use a separate (pre-paid) telephone. This way you prevent your phone number from being misused.
• Never share photos or videos where you are recognizable.
• Meeting in a hotel or inbound escort is safer than in your private environment.

If you do become a victim, contact the police and file a report! They can help you take next steps.

Prepay

The simple solution to avoid this is; Do not do it!

Of course, there are situations in which you handle this differently. You have known the advertiser for some time or the advertiser has multiple positive reviews on Kinky.nl.

But in the following situations it is wise to stay extra alert:

• Prepay for offered “Virtual sex” such as live appointments via Whatsapp or Skype. But also for receiving photos and/or videos.
• An escort who has to bring and or exchange money in between.
• Transfer travel money to the advertiser in advance.
• Pay someone at the bottom of a flat in the hall who will then tell you which apartment to ring.

These are some clear examples. Of course, there are situations that are not obvious or that you do not expect. That is why the basic principle is: do not pay in advance! If you do this anyway, this is your own responsibility and the consequences are for you.

But life is of course not without risk. But make sure it's not too big. Limits the amount you transfer. For example, only pay the travel costs in advance and on the spot for the actions.

So be aware of your choices. The number of positive reviews for an advertisement on Kinky.nl could possibly help you make a wise choice.

Good appointments

To avoid disappointment afterward, it is extremely important to make good but above all clear agreements in advance. Of course, it is important that both parties adhere to this, but good agreements do form the basis for a positive experience.

For example, make agreements about the actions that will be performed and for what price. But you could also think about how long the appointment is or how often can you come and where? Do not be modest because it is in everyone's interest that clear agreements are made.

If you have any questions or handy tips, please feel free to contact Kinky Customer Service. We are happy to help you.